We need men who will know up, grow up, and show up.
"I'm not sure when men decided that 30 was the new 15. When men thought it was better to remain independent than making a commitment to another. When men were courageous in business and battle but afraid to be fathers. I'm not sure when video games and "guy night" became more important than tee-ball and date night. When 4 year relationships weren't long enough for a proposal. When staying out became cooler than showing up. I'm not sure when men became boys. Our culture has a boy problem. In Italy, they call it Peter Pan Syndrome. I call it immaturity and selfishness. Men so focused on their dreams, their visions, and their desires they find themselves wealthy, known, and alone. The adult world doesn't need more boys. We need men who will grow up, know up, and show up. Who will fight for romance and commit quickly and stay indefinitely. To turn their hearts toward children and work to raise them well. To be friends who grow friends. Not just by compliments, but accountability and conviction. We need more men. We need more men of integrity and character. Those who will hold a moral code and not compromise it. Those who love women, treat them as they would their own daughters and lead them when everything doesn't make sense... They would lead. We need more men."
- Dale Partridge
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If you have a real man in your life (husband, father, brother, friend) tell me about them in the comments! Let him know he is so valued in a world with so few real men.
For those of you who will inevitably leave a comment at the bottom complaining about women and how they have changed for the worse, trust me, I’m getting to that next. I’m not a man basher. The modern feminist habit of bashing men and treating women as superheroes drives me batty. But alas, Instagram limits how much I can express here in one thought, so I will have to talk about the decline of women in another post.
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